YOUR WEEKEND WINGMAN
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THIS WEEK'S WEEKEND WINGMAN
How About a New Opener this Weekend?
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It's almost the weekend. You should be making
plans to sarge.

If you're not going out this weekend to meet
alluring women at clubs and bars, then I've one
question for you...

Why the HECK not? ;)

"You miss 100% of the shots you don't take."
That's me quoting Style, quoting Wayne Gretzky.

When I first moved to L.A. I went out with Style
one night at a hot Hollywood club and he pushed
me to talk to every woman I saw, even if she was
"out of my league." He said that the first step
to becoming a pick-up artist is...duh...meeting
women.

That night he gave me a great opener (I'll tell
you it in a bit, it's really good) and he taught
me an amazing body language technique  for
approaching women because 60-80% of all
communication  is non-verbal. I never knew that
body language mattered so much but by doing what
Style said I got four numbers that night and I never
forgot his simple body language technique.


Now let me tell you about that opener he taught
me... :)

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THIS WEEK'S WEEKEND WINGMAN
The Jinx Opener
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The opener that Style taught me that night was
the Jinx Opener originally created by Evolve.

What you need:

Pen & Paper (napkin)

How to do it:

Grab a napkin from the bar - Write on one side
of the napkin, "My friend just Jinxed me! I
can't speak until someone says my name." On the
back write, "Don't give me that -He's hitting on
me face- you're not even my type." In the middle
write, [your name].

The approach:

Make your approach frantic; as though you are
searching for anyone you can find to help you
out. Take the napkin and put it in the hand of
your target.

Let her read the napkin. She'll laugh or look at
you like you're a weirdo, the latter being more
effective in this case. After she reads the
front, regardless of her reaction, flip over the
napkin so she can see the disqualifier side of
the napkin.

Make sure everyone sees the napkin when you hand
it to the girl. During the time you're unable to
speak, use a lot of extreme body language to get
the group to laugh and play along. Think of it
like charades.

When they ask what your name is open up the
napkin  and show it to them. Once they know your
name and un-jinx you you'll have a thoroughly
opened set.

Of course, the whole group will laugh. You will
now be the most exciting person they've met all
night.

Notes:

Once you can speak you've already hit a hook
point, you can either stack on another opener or
DHV.

This opener is great in a crowded nightclub
because  you don't have to speak. There are no
noise issues.

If they won't un-jinx you... you could always
pretend they did, and then blame the confusion on
the noise. Regardless the set is open as long as
they are having fun.

If you have a pivot you can have her approach by
saying: "Don't say his name! He's only got bad
things  to say!" This will make the story look real;
it will solidify the root.

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Let me know how it works out!
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Send me an email on Monday and tell me how the
opener worked for you. With your feedback we can
probably make the opener even better!