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In this article, Gypsy explains how to get
women to constantly think about you using
the art of proper text game.

Enjoy...

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Textual to Sexual
by Gypsy
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Many social artists dismiss the use of texts
messages as unnecessary and espouse that
texting should never be used in lieu of
proper phone game. Despite this opinion,
rising statistics suggest that text messaging
as a communication tool is growing rapidly.

Nine years ago, in 2000, about 17 billion
messages were sent. By 2004 that number had
risen to 500 billion. This equals about 100
text messages for every person in the world!
 
A healthy percentage of those billions of
texts were likely sent out by women, so while
it's clear every social artist should embrace
this communication tool and put it to work,
the question of what to say remains.

A text of "Hey what's up?" leaves a woman in
the awkward situation of creating the value
for this interaction. Instead of asking these
open ended questions, you should use your
text to bring value to her day.

Imagine that the woman you're about to text
is sitting at her workplace bored. It should
be your goal to change her state and put a
big smile on her face. Be quirky, fun and
share off the wall observations from your
day, e.g. "I just saw a guy wearing a fanny
pack! Can you believe that?"

Another powerful tool that helps to reinforce
her memory of meeting you is to recall an
inside joke which you two shared. If you gave
her the nickname dork, for example, begin
your text exchange with "Hey dork! I bet you
are operating at a level of 100% dorkiness
today."

Or recall a specific fun interaction you had
and add a new challenge, "Wow! You sucked at
thumb wars. I am going to beat you again and
again."

Remember, the ultimate goal of your texting
is to give a further display of your fun and
confident personality to bridge into a very
successful phone conversation. To ensure
this result, keep these two guidelines in
mind:

* Initial texts should stick right to the
  point. Long messages convey neediness
  and lessen the punch of humor.

* Proper grammar is a turn on for women,
  write intelligently and always proof read
  the text before you send it.

A well played text conversation will often
cause a woman to hint about a meet up with
texts like "What are you up to?" Treat this
as a major signal that she's interested in
hanging out.

Have a strong frame and lead the interaction
with responses such as "We're going on a
picnic and you are making the cookies!" or
"We're going shopping! We need to get you
some new clothes!"

If an invitation is ever denied because she
is too busy that day, use the classic line
"Break your plans. I'm more fun."

Style explains that the point of this isn't
to really convince the woman to go out, but
it will likely get a laugh and increase the
chance she will hang with you next time.

When your invitation is accepted, set up a
time bridge via text to talk to her about
logistics "I'll call you in a few and we'll
make our detailed plan about this picnic. I
take my picnicking seriously!"

A few playful and thoughtful thumb strokes
on your cell phone can brighten her boring
day and excite her for your next meet up.

When you display your personality with the
right words, you'll soon see what starts as
textual quickly escalates to sexual.


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I Take My Picnicking Seriously Too
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