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YOUR WEEKEND WINGMAN Field Reports from the members of the PUA Community, the STYLELIFE ACADEMY coaches and Neil Strauss himself! Tune in every week as you follow us on our quest to understanding the opposite sex!
PUA WORK-OUT PLAN - BY: THE SNEAK
=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-= THIS WEEK'S WEEKEND WINGMAN Insane, Intense, Intentional: PUA Work-Out Plan =-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=
Gentlemen got a mission, We need to make sure SNEAK gets to London next month! We also need to polish up our PUA Skills for the conference!
Here's a note from SNEAK himself:
Let's get PUMPED UP! I'm talking about an intensive PUA training session to take your game to the next level right here, right now with me, your personal trainer "The Sneak."
We've got a Conference coming up in London in November...
http://www.stylelife.com/world-conference/london/
...and Style says he's only taking the most fit Stylelife coach to London with him. So I need all of you to help push me to train up because I DEFINITELY WANT TO GO!
Even if you didn't buy your ticket for the London conference yet you should still participate because I work best in a group environment. I've created some crash PUA courses that I'm going to perform over the next few weeks and I want you to do them with me because it will motivate me and we can all share in the experience and the reward.
Here's what we'll do. We're going to take a piece of our game each week and we're going to work on it, share our experiences, and get better at it together.
Are you in?
Let's LEVEL UP!!!
Starting with the basics...
=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-= Mission #1: Master the Cold Open =-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=
-The Breakdown-
Yeah, it's basic but the fact of the matter is that if you don't open then you can't close (and you can quote me on that because it sounds quotable).
The more you open the more chances you have for success and the more you learn about approaching. With practice each open gets easier and your approach gets smoother.
Also, if you open a set correctly as opposed to incorrectly you can set yourself up for success as opposed to setting yourself up for failure.
-What You Need to Do-
Step 1: Get out of the house and go to a place you can socialize, bar, club, house party, social event, meet-up, shopping mall, super market, anywhere.
Step 2: Spot a group of people with women in it count 1-2-3 and walk over to them. Do not stop to look at the group and decide if the women are hot or not. Do not stop to think about what you will say just count to 3 and go. This is the 3 second rule and on this mission we are all going to employ it, no excuses.
Step 3: Once you've approached the set say a pre- scripted opener. Honestly, any opener that you already know will do but here's a few examples that you can use, some old and some new:
a. Hey guys, I need your input on this. I gotta run off in a minute, but do you know the names of the 5 oceans?
b. Hey quick question. My friend and I are taking a trip to celebrate something special, but we can't decide where to go. We've narrowed it down to Paris or Las Vegas. What would you do?
c. Hey guys, I'm on my way out but I need your opinion, my friend went to Amsterdam a while back and hooked up with this guy there. The thing is, he's been calling her every day for 2 months since she got back, and for a while she liked it, but now it's getting old. How can she get rid of this guy?
Note: Please, study these openers and notice that all of them have somethings in common: they ask questions that are leading not just yes or no, they are non-sexual and don't convey any sexual interest to the target on your part, and they have a time constraint that tells the people you are talking to that you won't be sticking around forever. If you use your own opener make sure it has these components or else you'll limit your success.
Another important factor is to root your opener. For any opener you use come up with a valid reason why you're asking and throw that out there too. Because people will ask "Why?"
Step 4: Rinse and Repeat. That's right this week you are going to do this again and again. The goal for you and me is to open 14 times. Don't act shocked. Remember I don't want excuses. Break that number down and it's 2 approaches per day. Easy.
=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-= GET OUT THERE! =-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=
So here's the drill, we have 7 days to complete the mission above. As you're completing the mission I need you to report in to me with your field reports. Your reports will push me along and help me complete the mission too.
This part is very important because I'm going to share some of your experiences with all the Weekend Wingman readers. Whoever sends in an FR related to this mission that I feel is the most motivational I'm going to publish it to keep us all focused on the prize.
All right! Go out there and SARGE and help me get to London this November:
http://www.stylelife.com/world-conference/london/
Thanks for getting my back,
-The Sneak
P.S. I'm starting my mission tonight ;)
See you all in the field,
JAY AVERY
If you have an interesting observation or experience in the field, whether you're male or female, we encourage you to submit them to us! We're always happy to hear about the successes and learn from the failures out in the real world! And with your permission, we'd also be happy to post them for you in our weekend wingman section!
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