YOUR WEEKEND WINGMAN
Field Reports from the members of the PUA Community, the STYLELIFE ACADEMY coaches and Neil Strauss himself! Tune in every week as you follow us on our quest to understanding the opposite sex!

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 The Smoothest "Under The Radar" Opener Ever
 Stolen Directly From Style's Live Pickup
 by The Sneak
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 The student turned to Style and declared "I'm
 terrible at remembering names."

 Style begins to teach us all an awesome little
 memory trick so  we'll never forget a name
 again. He then paused, spun around, and
 completely in the moment says to the gorgeous
 girl behind him "Hey, real quick I'm going to
 borrow you for a second. We just need your
 name."

 The next thing you know she isn't only a part
 of our group; she is watching and directly
 participating as Style performs a demonstration
 of higher value (DHV) routine. Notice a few of
 the subtleties that made this so effective.

 1. His opener is a DHV, so right away he
 conveys that he is an interesting guy and
 boosts his attraction value immediately.

 2. He isn't trying to impress her in any way,
 shape, or form. Actually, he isn't even doing
 the routine for her, it is rooted in the fact
 that he is helping us guys learn this cool new
 trick.

 3. Style has the girl doing something for him
 right off the bat. The frame is perfectly in
 place. Many guys usually walk up to a group
 of girls and will do anything for them just
 to hangout for a bit like take photos for
 them, buy drinks, etc.

 4. The thing she's doing is nothing major;
 it's all fun and interesting and adding value
 to her day. This instantly causes her to want
 to hang around, and remain a part of our
 group.

 After completing his DHV and chatting for a
 bit, Style left the set for a while
 (takeaway). Doing a takeaway once or twice in
 a club is important because it conveys you
 aren't needy or desperate. It isn't the walking
 away that's the magical key; it's that they see
 you're willing to walk away.

 A little while later, Style reopened the set.
 So I thought quickly, sat behind Style, and
 pretended I was on my cell phone while I
 listened to every word (yes, I know, I'm a
 total dork and that it's a bit extreme, but
 hey, they don't call me The Sneak for nothing).

 The girl reopened immediately and was highly
 receptive. Clearly his first impression had
 left her wanting more. She began to introduce
 this cool, interesting guy (Style) she met
 earlier to all her girl-friends. One of her
 friends recognizes him and starts saying "Oh
 you're that guy who wrote that book about
 "The Game" or whatever..."

 And that's when it hit me.

 Every day I hear at least one guy complain
 that he's going to be called out for using a
 routine or proven opener that they've learned
 from a dating expert - and then he uses this
 as an excuse to not approach. The fact is
 that 99.9% of these guys are dealing with a
 fictional problem in their heads (even after
 the VH1 show, call outs are honestly very
 rare, and I am speaking from experience not
 theory).

 If anyone should be worried about call outs
 it should be Style himself, but guess what,
 he's not.

 Neil didn't slow down one bit. He didn't
 speed up. He didn't panic. He didn't freeze
 up. He didn't eject. He just kept going.

 She kept throwing little tests at him, but he
 remained unaffected, and soon enough the
 tests ended and she started getting really
 close, caressing his chest, and hugging him.

 Now, if Style had started getting nervous or
 acting weird when she first commented on the
 book, do you think she would have wanted to
 get close to him? Of course not.

 So next time you worry about being called
 out, take a moment to realize that if it ever
 does happen, you have a choice. You can freak
 out and blow the set or you can keep your
 cool, stick to your guns, and she'll be
 molesting you in front of everyone at the
 club. The choice is clear.

 A few minutes after that, Style had each of
 the girls on one arm and lead them to another
 more isolated area of the club. I made a mental
 note to research invisibility magic so next
 time I could keep eavesdropping, but now I was
 motivated to have my own adventure and open
 some sets of my own.

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 I Need to Borrow You for a Second...
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 Get out there this weekend and use this
 technique I want you to email me field reports
 gentlemen ;)

 I love checking my email Monday morning and
 seeing a list of emails with subject lines like
 "Sneak I totally got this hottie's digits!"

 I live for that stuff!

 Your Sneakiest Friend,